How to Break a Good Man

This book is dedicated to the resilient human spirit, to those who have navigated the treacherous landscape of addiction and emerged victorious, and to those who continue to fight the good fight. It is a testament to the unwavering strength found in vulnerability, the power of seeking help, and the transformative potential of self-compassion. This is for the countless individuals who have endured the silent suffering of trauma, the crushing weight of codependency, and the agonizing grip of addiction. Their battles, often fought in the shadows, deserve acknowledgment and understanding.

This work is also dedicated to my children, whose bright light continues to shine even amidst the darkness that clouded my past. Your unwavering spirits serve as a constant reminder of the boundless capacity for healing and the profound importance of prioritizing self-awareness and seeking support. Their absence in my life has been a relentless ache, a constant reminder of the profound consequences of my choices. This is a dedication not just to their resilience but to the hope of someday mending the bridges shattered by my actions. I deeply regret the pain caused, the trust broken, and the time lost. My hope is that one day, they will find it in their hearts to understand the depths of my regret and the sincerity of my commitment to rebuilding my life.

This memoir is a tribute to the unwavering support of my therapist, whose guidance and unwavering belief in my capacity for change provided an anchor in the storm. Their dedication to their craft, their empathetic listening ear, and their unflinching belief in my ability to heal, are impossible to adequately express in words. Their work has inspired this project. I owe them an immeasurable debt of gratitude. Likewise, the friends who stood by me in my darkest moments, who offered a hand without judgment, provided a beacon of hope, reminding me that I was not alone in my struggles. To those who chose to offer understanding instead of condemnation, my deepest gratitude and unending appreciation. This book stands as a testament to the transformative power of human connection and the immeasurable strength found in shared experiences. Rated '2/5 - Behind closed doors' for steam/spice/heat level.